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Although Edith, who sadly died in January 2001, had moved to sheltered
accommodation in Greens Norton, she maintained her links with Helmdon,
where she had lived for many years and had made numerous friends.
She was born in Kent in February 1924 and her parents, who were very
poor, were unable to look after Edith and her twin sister Kathleen
so they were taken into the care of the Church of England Children's
Society and then sent together to foster parents at Greens Norton,
returning to the Society at Roehampton as teenagers.
Edith trained as a nursery nurse at technical college, gaining
the NNEB qualification, and joined the Williams family as Nanny
to Jacqueline, a job that took her with the family to America. Later
on she returned to Northamptonshire as Nanny to Colin and Sarah
Gee at Paulerspury. It is a tribute to Edith that the families she
worked for still called her Nanny and treated her with much love
and respect right to the end of her life. She was one of the old
school of nannies, firm but fair. Nanny always knew best.
During her years at Paulerspury Edith learnt to ring bells and
through this pursuit met her future husband George, after their
marriage moving to Helmdon, Falcutt and then back to Helmdon. Edith
was a devoted wife, and mother to their son Roger, but also found
the time to throw herself wholeheartedly into the life of the village.
She worked as a dinner supervisor at the school, was Akela to the
village cub pack, and a staunch member of the Women's Institute,
serving as President and singing in the W.I. choir. The church was
central to her life and she was involved in every aspect, from ringing
the bells to cleaning the brass, sewing kneelers and teaching the
Sunday School. She was a very strong-willed lady with a definite
sense of right and wrong. If she believed in something she would
move heaven and earth to achieve that goal. She also had a quick
wit and a lively sense of humour.
As time went on, sadly Edith's health began to fail and she underwent
several major operations, always bouncing back with her indomitable
spirit, full of life and fun.
Her later life was deeply shadowed by tragedy. First her husband
George died in 1989 after a long period suffering with Alzheimer's
disease, through which Edith nursed him with her usual care and
patience, and then only 14 months later her life was shattered when
her beloved son Roger died suddenly, leaving a wife Janet and two
young children, Alicia and Tom. Though outwardly she "got on
with life" she never really got over this dreadful loss.
Again ill health dogged her in the form of renal failure and she
was forced to spend much time in the Churchill Hospital Renal Unit
at Oxford. Thanks to their skill and care she was able to enjoy
several more years of active life. She moved to a sheltered bungalow
in Greens Norton to be nearer her niece Sarah, whom together with
her brother, Richard, and their father she had taken under her wing
when her twin Kathleen died in 1971.
Edith is sadly missed by all who knew her. She will be remembered
not only for her devotion to her family and her service to the community
but also for her broad smile and laughter and her fortitude in the
face of adversity. Her family would like to thank all those who
made donations in her memory to the Churchill Renal Unit, raising
the magnificent sum of £1,040.
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